Other engines don't give NaN if there is at least one digit after the
dot for milliseconds. We were much stricter and required exactly three
digits.
But there is real world usage of different amounts of digits such as
discord having three extra trailing zeros.
...for the non-success state. This fixes a crash when parsing dates with
the year -1, as we would assert successful parsing ("year != -1").
Mixing Optional and -1 seems worse and more complicated than just using
Optional for all the values, so I did that instead.
