DNS over HTTP: Fix "validate" argument
The argument sets the "cd" parameter on the request.
For both included providers, this flag disables validation ([1], [2]),
so doing the exact opposite of the described action.
This changes the label to the correct name and also flips the default
value to keep the old behavior.
[1] Google
<https://developers.google.com/speed/public-dns/docs/doh/json#supported_parameters>
[2] Cloudflare
<https://developers.cloudflare.com/1.1.1.1/dns-over-https/json-format/>